Personality

I believe that my parents played a major role in the development of my personality.  They both set a positive example for me and had calm, easy-going personalities.  They took most things in stride.  They always reminded me to relax and stay calm regardless of the situation.  I believe my personality is a combination of both of my parents and a result of their influence in my life.  I behave in a very similar manner as my parents and I share the same viewpoints and feelings as they do about many things. I also believe that the home environment that they provided me with also helped shape my personality.  Environment plays a role in developing personality, (2005).

My parents describe me as being quiet and reserved during childhood easy to get along with and generally happy.  As I transitioned into adolescents, they describe me as having become a little moody, sensitive, and easily upset.  My personality later became calm during late adolescents.  The way that my parents raised me helped me to feel mostly secure as a young person.  I spent a lot of time thinking deeply for someone my age.  I believe I was mature for my age and I credit this part of my personality to my parents.  Childrearing practices do influence personality and help children become self-reliant, independent and responsible (ONeil, 2006).

My recollection of my temperament as a young child was reserved, quiet, and slightly shy.  I was friendly and easy to get along with.  I guess I would describe my personality as happy-go-lucky.  I had few complaints or demands as a child.  Again, I believe this is because of my parents who I felt close to, and my environment.  Relationships formed during early stages of life give rise to an individuals personality development, (Cardillo, 2008).

Self-Esteem

Self-esteem is an important factor in everyones life, especially young children and adolescents.  Healthy self-esteem is a childs armor against the challenges of the world.  Kids who feel good about themselves seem to have an easier time handling conflicts and resisting negative pressures, (Kids Health, 2009).

Positive relationships and good communication are essential in the development of self-esteem.  In young children and adolescents, self-esteem is influenced by relationships with parents, teachers, peers, and significant others in their lives.  Self-esteem levels may increase or decrease during the transition from childhood to young adulthood.  Children often compare themselves to others and if they feel that they do not measure up, their self-esteem may be negatively affected.  If they fair well in comparison to others, their self-esteem levels may increase.  These comparisons are made in terms of academic success, material possessions and social status, and also physical appearance.

There are many consequences of low self-esteem.  Young people with low self-esteem are more likely to allow themselves to be taken advantage of, and do poorly in school.  They may withdraw from social activities and have few friendships.  They find it difficult to solve problems and lack confidence.  Moreover, low self-esteem has be linked to violence, eating disorders, teenage pregnancy and suicide, (Reasoner, 2008).  Parents should do everything possible to help their children develop and maintain positive self-esteem.  No matter what the age of children or adolescents, good parent-child communication is essential for raising children with self-esteem and confidence, (National Mental Health Information Center, 2002).

Having high self-esteem is generally advantageous.  It helps maintain confidence in ones ability to be successful in life.  However, extremely high self-esteem may have some negative consequences.  For example, adolescents with extremely high self-esteem may look down on others, behave in selfish ways and be self-centered.  With young people, it is best to help them develop a positive, healthy level of self-esteem.  Some methods for promoting self-esteem in children and adolescents are to point out their good qualities and skills.  Offer honest praise at appropriate times, and be supportive.

Personality Case Study

Introduction to Theories of Personality

What is a theory
Psychologists have come up with various theories to explain why people behave the way they do and why people behave differently in an assortment of circumstances. In definition a theory is a representation of realism that helps us to value, elucidate, forecast, and control reality. Another definition has stated that a theory is a steer toward the future. A theory looks at the happenings of the past and uses those predicaments and sequences to forecast the future. To some extent a theory is like a map, it shows direction but may be wrong in one aspect or another and can be changed to make it more accurate.

Definition of Personality
Personality has in many circumstances been defined as what makes an individual different from other people. It is that aspect of a persons behavior that makes them unique in one way or another. This characteristic of personality is known as individual differences. When compared, one person could be an introvert and another could be an extrovert. Some people are fixated and others are not. These features define an individuals personality.

Personality can also be defined by the similarities that are evident in peoples behavior. Individuals could be different is the aspects that have been named above but still posses come similarity. When an introvert and an extrovert are placed on some kind of a comparison balance, they possess some level of similarity they posses some characteristics and behaviors that make then alike. Therefore, personality does not only concentrate on the differences among peoples but also the similarities that make them human.

At a different level, personality theories are also involved in the make up and the structure of different people. What makes people work together, what makes them draw apart are some of the questions that personality theories seek to answer. Some psychologists have sort to analyze an individuals personality to come up with a detailed report of what being a certain individual entails.
Personality and personality theories is an umbrella to psychology. This is because personality covers all aspects from genetic make over to learning and development, ethnicity and customs and societal interactions and even about therapy. These features make up an individual and they direct the different ways in which an individual behaves when exposed to different situations.

Personality Case Study  Britney Spears
The assignment is aimed at analyzing a particular case study in relation to various personality theories. In this particular essay the case study is Britney Spears. The essay will analyze various theories by certain psychologists and match them with the personality traits of Britney Spears.

Humanistic Theories
Humanistic Personality Theorists believe in the power of free will. Free will means that each individual behaves as a result of their own will and they are not forced or coerced neither is their behavior as a result of other peoples doings. Abraham Maslow and Carl Rogers are well known as the major supporters of this view.

Abraham Maslow is celebrated for his 1943 paper commonly known as the Maslows Hierarchy of needs, where he did a study on a group of people in those early times that he, in his own perspective where self actualized. He came up with a pyramid of needs with the more essential needs at the base of the pyramid.

According to Maslow, the physiological needs which include the aspects of life that an individual cannot leave without, for example water, food, sleep, breathing among others. After the physiological needs are satisfied the next class of needs is the Safety needs which are the needs of job, body, and family and property security. The next level of need is a love and belonging need. After the sense of belonging is achieved the next hierarchy of needs is the esteem needs and finally the need for self actualization (Engler, 2008).

Placing Britney Spears in the Hierarchy of Needs
When we focus on our case study in accordance to the hierarchy of needs, Spears has fully been fulfilled when it comes to the first hierarchy physiological needs. She is content with the basic needs that are very essential for individual life. She does not lack when it comes to the provision of food, water and breathe. This is clear because no where in her biography is it mentioned that she had a poor background.

The next need in the hierarchy is the need for love and belonging. Britney has had numerous issues when it comes to this particular need. When we focus on her marriages, she was first married to her upbringing friend Jason Alexander in the year 2004, a marriage that lasted only 55 hours. Individuals who are satisfied when it comes to love and sense of belonging do not get married and divorced in such a short period of time. This particular marriage shows the manner in which she and her ex-husband rushed into it without any deep thought of what they were getting themselves into.

Six months after the marriage break with Allan, Spears was already engaged to Kevin Federline. They had only known each other for only three months. This indicates the desperation that she had during this particular year. It seems like the only thing she wanted was to get involved with any one in the shortest time possible. Federline at the time of his engagement with spears had just gotten off a relationship with Shar Jackson who was pregnant with their second baby. This scenario leaves many questions in the mind of her funs and her family and friends. It is rash and thoughtless to get engaged to a man who expecting a baby with another woman. Relationships such as these ones do not last. This was evident since one and a half years and two babies later, spears filed a divorce against Kevin plus full custody of her two children.

These series of divorces indicate that Spears does not know what exactly she wants in her life she is confused and not in control of her emotions. A responsible woman ought to maintain her marriage and ensures that her family stays together, but this is not the case with Britney.

Britney is stuck in second hierarchy of needs. She cannot achieve the satisfaction of self-esteem if she does not feel loved and if she does not posses the sense of belonging. This also make her not self-actualized. According to Maslow, the characteristics of a self actualized person are moral, creative, and impulsive, accept facts and are not discriminatory. These qualities are not evident in Britneys Life.

Characteristics of Self-Actualization
Awareness  Maslow stated that for self actualized people, there is a sense of awareness. Self actualization is epitomized by the peak experience. The peak experience means the point in life where an individual loses self and concentrates on an activity that is meaningful to life. Individuals concentrate on activities such playing golf, running the marathon, singing in the church choir among others.

Reality and Problem Centered  Individuals who are self actualized tend to be involved in problems of the society. Issues such as the declining rate of performance in schools, the increasing water and electricity bills among others are among the issues that a self actualized person involves himself with. Take the example of Oprah Winfreys Shows, she deals with all the aspects that in her opinion affect the community and also involves herself with social responsible activities.

Acceptance  self actualized individuals are people who have reached a point of absolute acceptance. They accept the little components that they cannot change, about their personal lives and about the environment at large. Due to this acceptance self-actualized individuals are predisposed to spontaneity.

Democratic  People who are self actualized are inclined into democracy. Democracy means that they concentrate on the value of people in life. They tend to be very careful with their words to avoid being offensive in any way. They also tend to hold close friendships and religions.

According to Maslow, only a population of only 2 of people will get to the level of self actualization. It is unfortunate that Spears is not among the stated percentage. In my analysis, Britney Spears is not self-actualized. If we compare the characteristics of a self actualized person and her personality there is still a lot to be desired. First, she has not yet reached the awareness level. The current news indicates that Britney has a multiple personality. She has been identified in different scenarios speaking in a British Accent. The interesting bit is that after speaking in the British accent she does not remember a thing after she is back to her senses.

Britney has also not been seen engaging herself with the problems of the society. Instead, she has been seen going into a rehabilitation center due to her drug problem. She has also been in and out of different marriages and at some point in her life she lost the custody of the children to her divorced ex-husband Kelly Federline.

Psychoanalytic Theories
Psycho-analytic theorists tend to bond various aspects of the personality and use these components to explain behavior. The initiator of the theory of psychoanalytic was Sigmund Freud and he based his analysis on the physics of thermodynamics. In thermodynamics heat is usually converted into mechanical energy in the same way the mind energy can be transformed into individual behavior. According to Sigmund an individuals behavior is more or less unconscious (Engler, 2008).

In Sigmund Freuds theory of personality, human personality is divided into three components the Id, the Ego and the Superego. The Freudian theory was based on a research of the mentally ill people in a hospital that he worked as a neurologist. The id, in the Freudians structure consists of the gut feeling, which is an individuals intuitive force, it is unconscious. The id acts on the pleasure principle. This part of the brain demands indulgence of the needs as exposed to the environment.
The ego, deals with the hassles of reality. It uses logic calculations to make choices. The ego reacts in response to the demands of the id. It plausibly analyzes the various needs and actually determines which of the needs it is going to fulfill. It works under the reality principle. The super-ego, accounts for what is right and wrong. It is what is known as the conscience. The super-ego adheres to the community rules and the rules that govern moral judgment. Therefore the demands that have been inculcated by the id are fulfilled in a moral and realistic manner.

Conflicts between the Id, the Ego and the Superego according to Freud are the limiting factors toward self actualization and can only be resolved by repression as a defensive mechanism (Engler, 2008).

Analysis of Britney Spears using the Psychoanalytic Theories
In the life of Britney Spears as indicated in her biography, there is a conflict between her id, ego and her superego. Her traits and her attitudes seem to be taken over by the id. Take the example of one of the decisions that she made when she got married to her first husband in Las Vegas. The marriage only lasted 55hrs. After investigations, Britney said that she and her ex-husband Jason Allen Alexander had been involved together, not taking into consideration their likes and dislikes and their desires. This particular incident shows that the id, the ego and the superego are not working together in collaboration.

Social Cognitive Theories
Cognitive theories emphasize on the fact that behavior is influenced by cognitions. Cognitions are mainly defined as the expectations that an individual has regarding the environment and the people that he interacts with. The cognitive processes are based on judgment and thinking.

Jean Piaget is among the celebrated cognitive psychologists. He was a biologist and psychologist and is legendary for coming up with a model of child development during the early 90s. According to Piagets theory there are four development stages of a childs development from the inherent impulses to complex activities. (Engler, 2008)

The four stages include Sensorimotor Stage (Age 0-2) - In the sensorimotor stage, the rational compositions are mainly involved with the mastery of material objects.

Pre-operational Stage (Age 2-7) - This stage involves the mastery of signs and symbols. Concrete Operational (Age 7-11) - In the concrete stage, children learn mastery of modules, associations and figures and how to rationale. Formal Operational (early teens after 11) - The last stage deals with the mastery of ideas and contemplation (Edelman, 2006). If the above stages of childhood development are not met it results in dissatisfaction of the initial needs that necessitate accomplishment before reaching self actualization. (Engler, 2008)

Analysis of Britney Spears using the Social Cognitive Theories
Britney Spears had an early career in singing. As early as 8 years old, Spears was singing in the church and at 11years old, her face was in a television star search program. Her career continued to flourish in the Mickey Mouse Club. When related to the theory by Piaget, Britneys childhood development cycle was built around a musical career.

Albert Bandura was also a cognitive theorist. According to Bandura, the emotional tendencies of an individual and the forces of the reminiscence are influenced by the environment. Bandura did an experiment that is known as the Bobo Doll experiment, he showed a group of kindergarten students a video of a college student kicking a Bobo doll. During their play time some of the kindergarten students were seen kicking and throwing around their Bobo dolls. This is known as the concept of modeling. Individuals tend to act in such a way as to imitate a certain model that they find appealing in their environment.

In her statements Britney Spears has been heard saying that her role models among others are Madonna, Janet Jackson, Michael Jackson and even Christina Aguilera. Spears looks up to these models as her form of inspiration and their traits have been seen evidently in her videos and her musical style and performance.

Behaviorist Theories
Behaviorist theorists have explained behavior as related to the exterior stimuli. This notion was developed by Skinner B. F. who put up a model which highlights the reciprocated interaction between individual people and an organism with the environment at large.

In his conception, Skinner explained the reason behind why children cry to be related to the attention that comes as a result of the crying. He called this the response and the consequences theory. In the illustration of the crying baby, the response is the crying and the consequence is the attention that the child gets as a result of the crying. Skinner named this the operant conditioning (Engler, 2008).
Ivan Pavlov on the other hand is celebrated for the classical conditioning theory. In his experiment, Pavlov used dogs. The dogs used to be fed at a certain time and to alert them a bell was rang. The dogs responded to the bell ring by salivating anticipating for a meal which was the consequence of the bell. After a period of time no food was served for the dogs but in the event that the bell rang the dogs started salivating instantly. With this, Ivan discovered that behavior can be influenced by an external stimulus.

Richard Herrnstein added some aspects to the behaviorist theories by introducing the concept of attitudes and traits. According to Herrnstein traits and attitudes can be influenced by external stimuli. He also added that some traits can also be genetic, and others are just as a result of the environment that we interact with (Engler, 2008).

Analysis of Britney Spears using the Behaviorist Theories
Britneys behavior can be related to the external stimuli that she was exposed to. At a very early stage she was exposed to the famous lifestyle and the lack of privacy in her life. Her relations with Madonna were also a great influence in her life. During the VMAs Britney shocked her audiences when she kissed Madonna in an outstanding and very disreputable moment of her career. Her relations with Paris Hilton also affected her behavior tremendously. She was once spotted by the paparazzi with her private parts bear with no underwear. These are situations that only Hilton is common for.

Type Theories
According to this personality theory people are divided into two types. These are the introverts and the extroverts. Personality types and personality traits are different. According to the personality traits the basic personality types also posses other attitudes. This theory was according to Carl Jung. The personality type theory is one of the oldest theories of personality. To understand introversion and extroversion, Jung came up with two pairs of psychological functions perceiving functions and the judging functions (Engler, 2008).

Analysis of Britney Spears using the Type Theories
Britney Spears is clearly an extrovert in relation to this theory. In the year 2002 after her break up with Justin Timberlake, Spears appeared in the news and other entertainment channels due to her profound partying and defiant lifestyle. Her body is also covered in numerous tattoos which is clearly not a characteristic of an introvert. At the 2000 MTV Video Music Awards, Spears made a performance nearly naked in the presence of incarcerated snakes and other animals.

Conclusion
Humans are complex creatures and psychologists have gone out of their way to understand and have come up with different theories to explain this complexity. However different their studies are, they converge at one point that is they all seek to understand and explain what make human beings behave the way that they do in different circumstances. Various theories of personality seek to explain why a certain case study behaves in a specific manner and it helps human beings understand and accept each other and correlate. Just as mentioned earlier, just like a map, a theory may be wrong but in the entirety theories help us to find the meaning of life and to simplifier the concepts that could otherwise seem incomprehensible.

Timing in Free-living Rufous Hummingbirds

The Purpose and Procedures of the Experiment

Rufous hummingbirds are among the interesting species of animals. Animals perform basic function by following what we call as circadian rhythm. The free rufous hummingbirds (Selasphorus Rufus) generally known as wild nectivores is subjected under an experiment to identify timing ability or an episodic-like memory capability. In the experiment 8 artificial flowers containing sucrose solution were then set up. Three male rufous birds are then trained to forage on these flowers. Four of the flowers are replaced or replenished every 10 minutes and the other four was every 20 minutes.
 Findings Demonstrated in Figures 2 and 3

Figure 2 is a bar graph that showed the results or findings regarding the Post Reinforcement Pauses or PRPs in 5 minute bins around 11 to 13 sessions for the 3 birds. It showed that the hummingbirds can distinguish 10 minutes from 20 minutes flower. They have learned the relative refill schedule and more remarkable are their ability to update the changes in information and patterns. Figure 3 showed a linear graph of the findings regarding Revisit Interval. They have shown that the birds revisited the 20 minutes flower less frequently than the 10 minutes flower. It showed that the birds recognized the time interval and knows the timing or the right time to visit the flower during each session.

Most Interesting Fact about the Study
So what does the experiment suggest What are the important findings According to this study the most interesting fact about this is the birds ability to track changes which showed that they have a form of memory more complicated than circadian rhythms and they possess fundamental aspects of episodic memory something which is found only in humans and primates. Free rufous hummingbirds did show that they can recall the 3 important components like where, when and what of things which is found to be exceptional.
HUMAN GROWTH AND DEVELOPMENT

Adolescence is developing logical behavior of perceiving the world in youngsters this influences their individual, communal and emotional condition. Because of the consequential critical ability, they start observing the negative aspect of parents and all influential people. This often directs to parent child clash. Parents do not bear condemnation by mounting adolescents and this further results more resistance in their bond. Idealistic insurgence sets in towards the later part of youth period. They want to be considered equal. Because of their escalating critical abilities and idealism, they imagine themselves as main trend setters of the society around them. Adolescence results into some clashes but it is necessary for self development of individual and growth of society. This term paper will present a general idea of the benefits ,this phenomenon brings with it.

Adolescents idealism corresponds with enhanced sense of uniqueness, self consciousness, and critical perceptions. Integrated with the increase in family clash during early youth years, these transformations amplify adolescents call for peer agreement (Steinberg, 1993). Identity crises and moral conflicts can endorse positive change and growth. Adolescence encourages exclusive aptitude to do things in a different way. Creativity gets better with cognition and practice. It allows learning the diverse aspects of life (Rawat, 2009).

Intellectual idealistic maturity results into evolution from material to conceptual thinking, active apprentices, and significant reaction to opportunities for contribution in actual life circumstances, developing understanding of individual capability, rationally inquisitive about the globe and themselves. Idealistically, wish to make planet better and communally positive. Shift from moral analysis concentrating on What is for me to that which believes feelings and privileges of others, more and more anxious about discrepancy between values showed by adults and the situation they see in society.

The youth intentionally improves him self and contributes to his own development, overcoming barriers by energetic and goal-directed hard work, illustrated by self-control and willpower (Muuss, 1975). They get socialize and learns the ways, thoughts, beliefs, standards, and norms of his society. In nutshell it improve Communication skills, self worth, self motivation, problem solving ability, multiple intelligences, logical reasoning, strategy development, creativity, evaluation of situations, social skills, negotiation, flexibility, conflict resolution, group decision making, participate in activities, leadership, sense of purpose, business skills, and when they developed as firm individual they positively contribute toward betterment of society.

Human Growth and Development

Throughout life, everyone develops their own behaviors, talents and traits. Some are hereditary, while others are caused by the environment. An example of behavior acquired from the environment is alcohol dependency. It is caused by peer pressure or sometimes personal depressions.

We can further explain alcoholism by using Sigmund Freuds theory of psychoanalysis. Accordingly, this theory is divided into three parts id, ego, and superego. Alcoholism has something to do with the id, or the pleasure principle, because it is an urge that must be gratified immediately. Alcoholic individuals usually has a weak superego, or conscience, that is easily overpowered by the id. The ego, which  acts on reality and serves as the moderator between the id and superego, cannot maintain the balance between the two, since the demands of id is higher than the superego. With the help of ego, the urge of alcoholism is allowed to be expressed (Theory of Psychoanalysis, n.d.).

The development of this trait can also be caused by other factors. Other insignificant events and personality during a persons childhood can also be a cause, since it can be carried out throughout life that can greatly affect hisher adulthood. However,  the importance of psychoanalytic theory gives a good example of how the id, ego and superego, can affect and contribute to an individuals growth and development.

Considered to be a negative trait, alcoholism seriously affects personal relationship. Once an individual becomes dependent to alcohol, it can be a possible cause of marital conflict or relationship gaps between the children and other family member.

The Effect of Birth order on Personality

The term birth order refers to an individuals rank by age among his or her siblings. Since the 1970s, researchers and psychologists have been engaged in efforts to shed more light on this issue. It has been speculated that a persons birth order influences his or her personality, an argument that has led to the development of the birth order theory. In the scientific field, claims that birth order influences personality have been received with mixed reaction. For instance, some scientist consider birth order influences an individuals intelligence hence it affects personality (Wilson, 2003). Some of the arguments that have been made about the relationship between birth order and personality include that last born children are spoiled and lack focus while the middle children are the black sheep of the family. For first born children, parents are usually anxious about the first child and may be more restrictive when dealing with them than other children. This paper will critically evaluate the argument that birth order affects personality.

Discussion
It is fascinating how children in families show their differences and similarities in personality due to the birth order. The environment in which first born children are welcomed into is tight because it is characterized by elevated standards and high expectations. In many cases, first time parents are proud of having a baby hence they become very attentive about the child. In addition, parents tend to show great commitment when it comes to purchasing the best quality products for their children. Due to the constant attention that the first borns receive from their parents, every achievement they make during development does not go unnoticed. The children develop high self-esteem and become confident. This boosts their ability to adapt to a changing environment. For first born children who are given the responsibility of leading the younger ones, they develop good leadership skills and are always willing to become role models to the others. For several decades, the evidence to support this argument has been inconclusive. However, research studies have indicated that ones birth order can affect both intelligence and personality.

First born children may develop certain personality traits due to the existing family environment. For instance, attempts by first borns to settle disputes between the younger siblings equip them with good problem solving skills. This role motivates first borns to become leaders. In addition, when first born children receive great attention from their parents, they may feel inferior when the second born child is born. They respond to this by adopting a personality trait that attracts attention. First borns enjoy undivided attention from grandparents and parents. Parents have very high expectations for the first borns but the youngest children are unburdened by the parents high expectations. Last borns therefore enjoy greater freedom  than the elder siblings.Due to the competitive atmosphere that the second born children are born in, they tend to develop characteristics and behaviors that are opposite to those of the first borns.For example, if the first born child happens to be pleasant and cooperative, they tend to become the trouble makers. The effects of birth order on personality also influence the career paths of the individuals. Anecdotal evidence implies that a larger number of individuals who hold power or have huge responsibility in the community are first borns as compared to second borns or children who hold other positions.

Many books, newspapers and journals tend to invoke the topic of birth order in relation to parenting, relationships and self-discovery (Saroglou and Fiasse, 2003).Although the link between the birth order and personality has been considered to be nothing more than a common perception without scientific evidence, recent studies have confirmed that ones position in the family affects the personality and IQ. For example, Norwegian epidemiologists Tor Bjerkedal and Peter Kristensen published some work about a study on birth order.The findings indicated that a reliable but small negative correlation between birth order and IQ exists. The results further indicated that the more older siblings an individual has, the lower ones IQ.This influences a persons personality. For second born children, a feeling of inadequacy in comparison to other sibling makes them competitors hence efforts by second born children to attract attention is evident in their character and personality. Many people believe that their birth order has influenced the development of certain personality characteristics in them. The influence of family constellation has had a strong influence on the lifestyles of children. Intellectual destiny is influenced by ones birth order. Some birth order theorist confirms that first born children are given more responsibility and power. This makes them confident, an issue that encourages good performance in class. Older siblings develop leadership skills by teaching and tutoring the younger children.

The birth order can have both direct and indirect effects on personality. While more positive characteristics can be seen in first born children, the middle borns may develop negative characteristics if they become troublesome. For instance, some of the personality traits that have been attributed to oldest children include that they are intelligent, mature, and independent and have leadership skills. However they can be bossy, spoilt and eager to receive attention (Wilson, 2003).Disobedience is often associated with middle born children. The new approach to the relationship between birth order and personality relates to the evolutionary principle that an offsprings behavior in relation to survival is influenced by the care heshe receives from the parents. Although some theorists state that birth order influences creativity, some researchers points out that the most influential factor on personality is not where one is born but how ones function or role in the family influence personality.  According to the birth order theory, four order types exist first borns, second borns, onlys and last borns. The theory points out that the first borns tend to be the responsible types and leaders. They love to be in control, conservative in outlook and are low risk takers due to their tendency towards perfectionism. The second borns are the flexible operators, concerned about the wellbeing of the others and compromisers. This makes them consider friendship and relationships to be important .Children that have no siblings are great achievers and tend to go for the best because they are concerned about pleasing others and they consider recognition important. However, they may be secretive. The last borns are the initiators and the challengers. For example,studies  that have been carried out in the US  about the birth order of many leaders have shown that first borns hold senior positions in many organizations and have a higher general point aggregate than the later . Children in families compete to create distinct niches and to enjoy their parents resources. First born children tend to be conventional, competitive and responsible. Last born children show some elements of play and being rebellious.

There is systematic effect of birth order on personality. Using a five factor model of personality, the effect of birth order traits has been examined. The findings have shown that showed brief measures of extraversion, neuroticism and openness in a group of individuals is not related to birth order. Dr.Kevin Leman who is an internationally known psychologist asserts that birth order affects ones personality. According to Dr.Leman, the older children are often organized, tend to be high achievers and detail-oriented. Parents expect more from the older children as compared to the younger children. Second born children are negotiators in the family. The last borns on the other hand are social, manipulative, outgoing, and open to change and are risk takers. The only children are to some extent similar in personality to the first borns.

Birth order is a variable that distinguishes the age of   children in a given family and forms a basis for the study of behavior genetics on personality. Some attempts to link birth order to personality traits have shown inconsistent results. For instance, the desire to achieve and to have first borns conform to certain personality traits has been linked to differences in sibling size and societal class. Some scientists have asserted that birth order is not a strong influence in the molding of a personality and instead have indicated that personality outcomes are influenced by multiple interactions of environmental factors. These factors include peer relationships, family sibling size and parental intervention. Traits such as sociability are common in later borns while E-related traits such as assertiveness are common in first borns. The NEO-PI-R is the most commonly used measure of the five-factor model used in birth order related studies. Findings of research carried out using this model have shown that firstborns do not have significant differences from later borns on some factors. Some researchers have argued that functional birth order and not biological order influence personality development. For example, a child who grows up alone with grandparents is functionally an only child regardless of ones biological birth order in the family Furthermore, a second born child whose older sibling dies is functionally a first born.

Criticism on research work that has been carried out about the effect of birth order on personality is due to the use of self reports in the studies. Self reports that are used in the studies are considered not to be the perfect indicators or underlying personality traits. However, the reports are good in shedding more light about birth order and personality (Jefferson et al, 1998).

Research studies conducted on the effect of birth order on personality focus on some common traits such as competitiveness, creativity and independence. Some birth order theorists such as Morales have asserted that the position of a child in relation to birth order influences personality characteristics (Morales, 1994).This in turn affects their behavior within the family or outside the home environment. Another study to determine the relationship between personality and birth order indicated that middle borns are often rebellious. In addition, the study indicated that they are less religious and showed lower school performance (Saroglou and Fiasse,2003).They are more open to fantasy and are often impulsive. Last borns are warm and easy to agree with. From 1976 to the twentieth century, about 141 studies on the relationship between birth order and personality were conducted. These studies suggested that the role of siblings in the family depends on the age, gender and other variables other than the birth order.

Many people believe that their birth order defines their personality. This has made a large number of people to develop implicit theories about their personality and birth order. Some of the most interesting traits to birth order dynamics include responsibility, ascendancy, self-esteem and emotional stability. Study of to determine the impact of birth order on personality and career choices involved 527 undergraduate students. The students were expected to fill in a questionnaire that contained demographic questions on sex, birth order and race (Collins, 2006).The study results indicated that although the discussion on the relationship between the birth order and personality is interesting, there is minimal   scientific evidence that ones personality is influenced by the birth order. Psychological birth order   influences ones career choice.

Conclusion
The discussion on the effect of birth order on personality has attracted lot of attention in psychology. Many people are convinced that their birth order in one way or another has influenced their personality trait. Some of the observations that have been made about first born are that they have larger receptive vocabulary. However, those who are born later may develop better conversational skills than the first burns .However, the relationship between birth order and personality is not as obvious as it always seem. Various studies have been conducted to verify whether there is any correlation between birth order and personality. Although some studies indicate that there is no relationship between the two, other have implied that there is some significant correlation between birth order and personality. The birth order plays an important role in ones life because the family is the first social system that a child is exposed to be. More studies will need to be undertaken in future to explore this topic further.    

Collins, C. (2006).The Relationship between Birth Order and personality and Career
Choices. Accessed on March 3, 2010 from
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This article  provides in-depth information about the relationship between birth order, personality and career choices. It provides information on how over the years the relationship between birth order and personality has been viewed and discussed. A research conducted to establish the impact of birth order on career choices confirmed that ones psychological birth order influences ones career choice. To some extent, the study shows that birth order may have an impact on personality. For instance, second born may become talkative, creative, emotional and irresponsible because they struggle to resist the higher status of the first borns.

The article points out that birth order may influence personality
Jefferson, T et al. (1998). Associations between Birth Order and Personality Traits Evidence from self-Reports and Observer Ratings. Journal of Research in Personality 32, 498- 509.

This journal article presents a discussion on why birth order has been disapproved to be a major factor in determining an individuals personality. The paper begins by explaining that many people believe that their birth order influences their personality. However, the article argues that is not the biological birth order that affects personality but rather it is the functional birth order. For example, a child who grows up with the grandparents only even though heshe may not be the first born is functionally a first born. It is this position that affects the personality. Criticism on research work that has been carried out on the effect of birth order on personality is due to the use of self reports. Although the reports are perfect indicators of the underlying personality traits, they do not provide evidence that birth order affects personality.

The article concludes that ones birth order by function as compared to the biological order affects personality.
 
Morales, C. (1994). Birth Order Theory A Case for Cooperative Learning. Journal of
Instructional Psychology 21, 246-250

This journal article discusses about the birth order theory .The theory asserts that birth order has a correlation with an individuals personality. This theory has been supported by several researchers and psychologists but has been criticized for having minimal scientific evidence. Morales support the theory and provide examples of how birth order has influenced the personality traits of the first borns, second borns and lastborns. The article explains which conditions promote the development of certain personality traits.

This journal article supports the birth order theory.
Saroglou, V and Fiasse, L. (2003). Birth order, personality, and religion a study among young

Adults from a three-sibling family.  HYPERLINK httpwww.sciencedirect.comsciencejournal01918869 Personality and Individual Differences
Volume 35, Issue 1, July 2003, Pages 19-29

This article supports the argument that birth order affects ones personality. It discusses a research study that was carried out to determine whether there is any correlation between birth order and personality. The study also focused on the impact of birth order on religious matters.Reserach findings indicated that there is a significant relationship between birth order and personality.Themiddle borns were found to be less religious and had lower school performance as compared to the other birth orders. They were more open to fantasy and impulsive. On the other hand, the last borns were found to be warm and easy to agree with. This supports the theory that the birth order affects personality.

The article indicates that there is a relationship between birth order and personality
Wilson, J. (2003). Birth order and personality characteristics. Accessed on March 3, 2010 from
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This article provides detailed information about the relationship between birth order and pearsonality.It asserts that birth order affects ones personality. Birth order refers to ones ranking in the family in relation to birth as compared to the other siblings. The article discusses the various personality traits that are evident in first borns, second borns and last borns.As believed by many people, first borns are considered to be more responsible and   tend to assume leadership roles in the family. The second borns tend to compete with the first borns hence may adopt behavior that is rebellious or troublesome. The last borns are considered to be irresponsible and emotional. These personality traits are evident in children based on their birth order. The article reaffirms the belief that the birth order affects ones personality.

The article asserts that birth order affects personality.

The History of Positive Psychology

Positive psychology is not a new school of thought. A brief review of the contributions from a few past psychologists, pertaining to positive psychology, will be provided. Broad historical overviews of a few previous schools of thought will be discussed. Alfred Adler, Gordon Allport, and Carl Jung are introduced explaining how their viewpoints may have been the first thoughts along the lines of positive psychology. Next, Existentialism will be explained to show a connection between the existentialists search for the meaning of life and how this ties in to positive psychology today. Lastly, the Humanistic era will be discussed showing the contributions from Carl Rogers and Abraham Maslow. These historical thoughts are explained to show how they are in alignment with the concepts used today in the current positive psychology movement.

The history of Positive Psychology can be viewed in different angles.  Some psychologists say that it started as early as 1950s but others say that it started much later. Seligman (2008) defines positive psychology as the study of how human beings flourish in the face of adversity and hardship. In this context, positive psychologys goal is  to strengthen the abilities and good qualities of humans for them to be able to live worthily and equip them to progress as an individual and as a society. Generally, it is believed that in positive psychology it is important to determine the specific situation of the environment, the progression, and the different circumstances that make people act and function positively.

A review of literature showed that psychofortology is actually an alternative designation for positive psychology, and fortology (Latin fortis  strong), an antonym for pathology. The positive psychologists concepts can be grouped into higher order personality factors (like the socialization process and personal growth) and spiritualityreligiousness. In fact, from the late 1950s up until early 1970s, there was focus on the personal growth orientation. Scholars felt that fortological theory and research in the areas or disciplines of socialization and interdependencies theories had been left out which should be attended to soonest.

Allport (quoted by Stumpfer, 2005) also commented on the tendency of academics and graduate students to conclude that old literature is worthless and should not be given importance.  This, he disputed by saying that when one does take the trouble to return to the writings of earlier generations, one is sometimes surprised by their freshness and insightfulness.

Seligman (2008), meanwhile, reported that such foundational knowledge is also important if one really wants get a glimpse of the holistic view of the concept.  It was also becoming very obvious that normal functioning cannot be understood mainly within a problem-orientated framework. For example, they pointed out that psychologists have little knowledge of what makes life worth living. According to them, what was wanting was a knowledge of what kind of families produce children who flourish, of what leads to well-being in individuals and communities, of what work settings lead to the greatest work satisfaction, of what policies lead to the strongest civic engagement  generally, to an empirically sound, as well as understandable and attractive, vision of the good life (Bugawan, 2008). Largely, what was available was knowledge about repairing consequences of adverse conditions, not about building positive qualities. There was too much focus on the negative aspect of life, of disorder, and the need for repair because someone or something is damaged. What was also lacking was an understanding of the fact that, despite all the difficulties, the majority of people manage to live lives of dignity and purpose (Seligman et al., 2005).

Martin Seligman (2008), in fact, aroused his fellow-psychologists to the tasks of positive psychology. He wrote that he started using it almost certainly by the end of 1997 in speeches and column writing in 1998. Seligman (2008) repeatedly stressed to his colleagues that the field of positive psychology has been side-tracked. According to him, psychology is not just the study of weakness and damage it is also the study of strength and virtue. Treatment is not just fixing what is broken it is nurturing what is best within ourselves.

In 2005, this initiative of Seligman et al. was given an immense impetus when launched, with a special issue of the American Psychologist, edited by Seligman. The two said, The aim of positive psychology is to begin to catalyze a change in the focus of psychology from preoccupation only with repairing the worst things in life to also building positive qualities.

On the other hand, a different designation for the same field of psychology, the construct of psychofortology, was introduced by Wissing and van Eeden (quoted by Stumpfer, 2005) to suggest a new sub-discipline, in which not only the origins of psychological well-being shouldwill be studied, but also the nature, manifestations, and consequently ways to enhance psychological well-being and develop human capacities. They derived the term fortology from Strmpfer (2005), who argued that Antonovskys (quoted by Stumpfer, 2005) construct of salutogenesis (Latin salus  health  Greek genesis, from gen-  be produced) should be broadened to fortigenesis (Latin fortis  strong), referring to the origins of strength.

Linkage with Humanistic Psychology
But in order to fully trace back the roots of positive psychology, the overview of the history of humanistic psychology may be traced as well. Humanistic psychology, as the term implies, is the study of psychology pertaining to the behavior and psychology of a human being (Seligman et al., 2005). It is in this school of thought that the influence of humanistic psychology in positive psychology surfaced. Going back, it was stated that positive psychology deals with the processes and conditions that give the human being the ability to progress and flourish in times of difficulty and hardship this is very reminiscent of humanistic psychology since it deals with human beings as well and employs a different approach to study the human behavior.

One of the principles applied in the study of humanistic psychology which is used in positive psychology is the impact of the idea of existentialism and phenomenology (Linley et al., 2006). However, many psychologists agreed that the inclusion of existentialism is not really observed in positive psychology since existentialism employs much negative approach which should not be the case. On the other hand, the influence and impact of phenomenology was adhered to by many this is because the very philosophy of phenomenology means that as a human being, people always have the consciousness to intentionally have a form of self contentment. (Jacobsen, 2007) Until today, psychologists seem to still disagree on the relation of existentialism and phenomenology to humanism and eventually positive psychology.

But according to Seligman (2005), the real roots of positive psychology in humanistic psychology can be traced back during the 1950s in the work of William James. James utilized the scientific approach and concluded that in order to fully study the optimal functioning of human, there is a need to consider the individual experience and utilize a positive approach. This approach has a counter analysis in the form of existentialism. Looking back, scientists and psychologists perceived at existentialism as a negative approach to analyzing human beings. However, in 2007, Jacobsen further looked in the subjective experience by taking into account the notion and concept of happiness in the field of Existential Psychology. He defined that the concept of happiness in the realm of Existential Psychology has both bodily and spiritual dimensions. Jacobsen further explained the definitions of the types of happiness which are ordinary and real happiness. He stated that ordinary happiness is the individual feeling of the fulfillment of goals and need.

On the other hand, real happiness incorporates the surroundings and the environment to which the fulfillments of goals and needs are balanced. Furthermore, Strumpfer (2005) stated that the need to have an existentialist influence in the study of positive psychology will reassure that the notions and views to the self with regards to the conditions of existence and their emotions actions and responsibilities. Therefore, it has been noted that the relationship of having an existentialist view in positive psychology is crucial. However, the negative outlook of psychology as a whole was also part of the reason why positive psychology flourished.

Maslow said that the science of psychology has been far more successful on the negative than on the positive side. It has revealed to us much about mans shortcomings, his illness, his sins, but little about his potentialities, his virtues, his achievable aspirations, or his full psycho- logical height. It is as if psychology has voluntarily restricted itself to only half its rightful jurisdiction, and that, the darker, meaner half. (Linley, 2006)  It is in the light of this reality of psychology that Seligman presented an alternative study and realm of thought to the overwhelming amount of focus on the humans suffering and various negativities in life. The emphasis of positive psychology ranges from (but not limited to) strength, virtues, fulfillment and happiness. However, it has been noted by Simonton in 2005 that the need for scientific research in positive psychology be done. This is due to the historical downfall of the study of humanistic psychology because of the lack of research. In view of this scenario, existentialist approach on happiness therapy may not really be the cure for human suffering. The treatment of humans in a negative way may well be the reason why there is so much mental illness in the system.

In 2008, Seligman reported that psychology has been focusing too much on the negative aspect of human thinking and this led to a distorted view of what the real human experience is like. He then later mentioned as an example, Beethoven, Beethoven was said to be depressed and suicidal at the age of 31 but he overcame his despair and was able to produce the Ode to Joy. The objective of helping out to improve the human condition was good but it fell short because it was not able to reach out to all those who really suffered. This is exemplified by the fact that most ordinary people needed to be lectured on how to have a happy and fulfilling life. In humanistic psychology, the concept is that every man develops throughout his life and continues to change his views in regards to happiness (Robbins, 2008). Analyzing this, it is evident that humanistic psychology and positive psychology have overlaps in terms of their goals, objectives and scope of interest.

These related fields of human and positive psychology differ in their methodologies and this is because humanistic psychologists or humanists employs the use of qualitative methods in order to assess, evaluate and have a better grip of the whole human behavior. On the other hand, the positive psychologists make use of more precise methods.  These methods include (but not limited to) the meticulous quantitative approaches and various deductive methods (Seligman, 2008). These research methods were also tackled by Maslow and in 1954, he reported that humanistic psychologists needed to alter their methods of investigation and research by employing another realm of approach  phenomenology.  Maslow further discussed that with the purpose of gauging the extent of human excellence and prospective, these humanistic psychologists need to use both positivistic and humanistic approaches (Bugawan, 2008).

But the origin of existentialism and phenomenology will always be reminiscent of what positive psychology is today. These challenges include ton of criticisms and reactions from the realm of psychologists alike. These challenges will push the positivist to have more research and to have a distinct interpretation without always referring back to its roots. However, it has been reported by Strumpfer in 2005 that the real roots of positive psychology can be dated back hundreds of years ago. This started out from the years of the Buddha and of the Chinese healers. He mentioned that these Chinese healers have objectives of supporting the whole personality and well-being of a human in order to be more resilient and resistant to lifes challenges and difficulties. This realization is a direct root of origin of positive psychology. Furthermore, part of the healing and supportive role of these Chinese healers is that they included the mind, body and soul as a reference point of for human improvement.

The origin of positive psychology was also attributed to the research of Carl Jung. Carl Jung is a psychiatrist and he devoted much time on the field consciousness. These involve senses like feeling, hearing and seeing. The definitive studies of Jung made him part of the origins of positive psychology of introverts and extroverts. Introverts relate to their inner self thus the individual experience and extroverts relate to the outside world which is the environment to which their behavior is manifested. These are directly opposing ideas of inward and outward views and Jung was able to develop a psychological unity of these aspects.

These different works and studies of psychologists contribute to what we know today as positive psychology. Additionally, tracing back to roots of positive psychology will lead us to Charlotte Buhler. Strumpfer (2005) stated that the work of Buhler in German which is entitled The human life course as a psychological problem, is a very important part of psychology. The reason for this is because in Buhlers book, she analyzed hundreds of biographies. Based from these analyses, she developed a five stage structure of a normal human development which includes exploration, establishment, maintenance and decline (Strumpfer, 2005) The main point of these research is that way back in 1935, Buhler did another research and she has created a list of practical uses of her findings. These practical uses or applications were termed by her as positive aspects which relates us back to positive psychology. Furthermore, Buhler also wrote about creative expansion. Creative expansion is the tendency of a person to move forward and progress in and alter or modify the world creatively through the utilization of physical or mental efficiency. In this realm, Buhler used the concept of intentionality, which basically means that the life of a person is dependent on the urge to give purpose and meaning their lives. This intentionality is a very crucial factor in positive psychology which gives more dimensionality to it as a science (Strumpfer, 2005).

Another proponent of the founding ideas and studies of positive psychology is Abraham Maslow, going back we stated that Maslow has his contributions to positive psychology. Maslows contributions include the creations of a hierarchy of needs and also growth motives which supplement the deficiency of motives (Linley et al., 2006). Additionally, it has been noted that Maslow was the first one to really use the term Positive Psychology. Later on, Maslow also termed this as health-and-growth psychology. (Strumpfer, 2005)

Positive psychology also encompasses different disciplines in medicine and philosophy (Seligman, 2008). One of the close relatives of positive psychology is its connection with cognitive science as a way of research and a way of giving meaning to mind and happiness. In order to view this relationship with cognitive science, let us take a quick insight on the definition of it. Cognitive science is the study of the different interrelationships, similarities, differences and functions of the mind and intelligence. This also includes embracing philosophy, together with psychology, artificial intelligence, neuroscience, and anthropology linguistics. Cognitive science began around the 1950s and it was continuously contributing to the base foundation of psychology (Linley et al., 2006).
 Having a good foundation of knowledge from the different researches done in the past is necessary as positive psychology is the new frontier in todays world and it is only in the unification of the sciences of psychology that its importance will be realized by many..

Nonverbal communication among different cultures

Executive Summary
Nonverbal communication includes those characteristics in a communication that are produced by the sender of the message which increases the value of the message without the use of words. Nonverbal communication has various forms body language, facial expression, touch, silence, eye contact etc. It is important to note however that these nonverbal messages differ across cultures. What one form means something in a culture would be entirely opposite for other cultures. For American culture they are care free, dont use too much eye contact, and keep a distance while talking similar to Japanese. However, Arabs prefer prolonged eye contact and less space while talking to each other. There are many other differences in the nonverbal communication of these cultures that can take up years to conclude on any one generalization of these nonverbal cues.

Introduction
Actions speak louder than words. We have all heard this famous proverb which has been proved to be true. These actions can make ones day without expressing words or shatters ones life without using cold words. This is because the non verbal actions actually speak out louder than the words being said in a way that the message is understood by the recipient just by the feel of the conveyers message.Thus non verbal communication is a way of communicating without the use of words that may affect the other person in a positive or a negative way.Mostly this non-verbal communication tends to be used in sales and marketing presentations of a business. But we do not realize its importance as being used generally in communication regardless of various differences in its interpretation due to cultural reasons.The research shows that in a communication only 10 includes words whereas the rest is the tone of voice, sounds etc.

Forms of non-verbal communication
Paralanguage-
We usually hear others emphasizing on the way one said to him or her something rather than what he said. Stressing or emphasizing in a vocal message is called paralanguage. The pitch or variation in the voice can be paralinguistic factors. The effect that vocal message gets through these factors is the degree to how a listener may react either he will be enthusiastic if the voice tone is strong or may lose interest if the voice is hesitant. (Wiener, Devoe, Rubinow, Geller, n.d.)

Silence- This is also termed as an important non verbal communication tool. When you are silent you may encourage the other person to expose his or her feeling or behavior that is delaying the process of effective communication. Silence can help one to get feedback from the recipient.Body language-
This is also known as kinesics. Body movement can be substituted for verbal actions. Body language or posture is one of the most recognizable nonverbal communications. The encoders body language i.e. the one sending the message can dictate his honesty, dedication, capability or his credentials.

Moreover it tells about the message being exchanged. On other hand decoders (receiver) body language will define whether the message is being accepted or not. It provides a quick feedback to both of them. Some of the body movements can be finger or foot tapping, legs or arms crossed, wrinkled face or blushing or shrugs etc. non verbal communication basically tend to show our emotional view of communication. Every now and then we notice people the way they are dressed, standing or walking and conclude on these factors about their personality or so. A good way to understand body language is to have sharp observation and perception (Sporer Schwandt, 2007).   To strengthen our ability to observe we can increase and focus on three aspects i.e. by educating ones self, keeping yourself aware, and through need. Education helps the person be aware of what to observe and the need to. Perceiving is about being able to observe. Meaning you are able to understand the body language of the decoder. (SporerSchwandt, 2007)

Facial expressions-This also play an important role in nonverbal communication. A smile on a persons face or frowning can give a lot of meaning to the message. However, these expressions vary across cultures for emotions such as contentment, sadness, hostility or fear. (SporerSchwandt, 2007)
Gestures-Conscious movements through hands can be an important way to communicate. Gesturing include using of fingers to show numbers, or thumbs up sign to indicate good luck, or waving in the air, pointing at someone or something. This all depends on the culture or background of the person using these.Touch- A touch is an effective way when words do not portray the feeling for e.g. comforting or consoling someone by wrapping your arms around them or giving them a hug. It is known as Haptics. Touch can be to show interest or to in honor of respecting the person e.g. a handshake. It all varies culture to culture. (Hertenstein, Holmes, McCullough, and Keltner, 2009)
Eye contact-        Eyes can communicate many messages to the people around us. A look, stare or a blink can give out message such as showing interest, anger, fear or attraction. Along with eyes, eyebrows and eyelids also help along in sending out a different meaning of the message.Handsarmslegs-It is quite fascinating to hear that even legs do communicate a particular message. Example may include tapping of feet. We have noticed people tapping fingers, popping their knuckles, or crossing legs etc. all these nonverbal message can show the sense of nervousness, or insecurity, boredom, happiness or seeking attention.It is important to keep in mind the non verbal message that is being sent out with the verbal one because at times they may be different. Therefore we must observe and perceive accurately when interpreting verbal and non verbal messages.

Distancespace-When communicating we keep a certain distance with the person. This distance is also a form of non verbal communication which may give out positive or negative signals to the recipient. Some feel comfortable while talking with the other person with a restricted level of space in between whereas others may regard more space to rudeness or uncomfortable. All this depends on ones personality as well as the cultural difference. (Arizmendi, 2008)

Non verbal communication can also be communicated through appearance i.e. different colors, clothing, or hairdos etc. Others may be graphics, architecture or signs and symbols. (Arizmendi, 2008)

Cultural Differences in Nonverbal Communication
The research shows that non verbal communication occurs in many circumstances. For instance, if you ask a depressed person what is wrong with him and in response he says he is doing ok will not satisfy you and you wont believe him. Or if someone angrily tells you to stop the conversing on a particular topic and carry on your work, you will know that person still is filled with emotions and you can read them. (Elfenbein and Eisenkraft, 2010)A study conducted in the US discovers that a total of 93 message has been transmitted nonverbally and only 7 through words. (Elfenbein and Eisenkraft, 2010)Non verbal communication using emotions of being happy, sad, angry or fearful is universal but it has been noted that the way these emotions are expressed across cultures may differ an can create confusion and misunderstandings. In the Middle Eastern culture such as Arab and Iran, people chose to show their grief. They tend to mourn loudly. On the other hand in the other cultures, like China or Japan are quiet and restrained to show their emotions. Their culture is against exposing their emotions openly. (Elfenbein and Eisenkraft, 2010)Friendship around the world is expressed in different ways. For some countries embracing each other, hugs and holding hands is acceptable while other cultures do not show their affections to the public. (Elfenbein and Eisenkraft, 2010)

Hence, with Non verbal communication, a polite and calm behavior may be quite opposite in the other culture. For instance, calling a waiter through snapping fingers is viewed absolutely fine whereas for some it is rude and insulting. The truth is that we can not predict the affect on communication of these forms of non verbal communications. Therefore, we need to study the silence communication styles of other cultures. (Elfenbein and Eisenkraft, 2010)Gestures and Body Positioning-
Gestures carry important body movements. Example include hand motion to call someone or to show an emotion such as surprised. The differences in gestures among cultures can be seen as in US it is ok to signal people with palm up while this is considered rude in Philippines, Korea and some areas of Latin America. In some cultures, this gestures is used for animals. (Hertenstein,Keltner, Bulleit, Jaskolka,2006)

Using our own gestures in a foreign country would not be such a good idea. For example in America, the gesture for OK is used in Japan as money symbol. Americans are very care free. They dont mind relaxing in front of other people with their shoes up on the desks in the work place. But for someone from Saudi or Thailand would not find this appropriate but humiliating because foot is used for walking and other functions. Thus when it comes to business operating in foreign countries they should also take into account the non verbal modes of communication and not just the cultural language. Posture- When considering posture of different cultures following are some
Bowing- it shows status or position in Japan. In America they are not affected by it neither have any criticism against it.Droopingslouching- is considered rude and inappropriate in the Northern EuropeanPutting hands in pocket- is viewed as disrespectful in Turkey.Crossing legs while sitting- is inappropriate in Turkey. (Elfenbein and Eisenkraft, 2010)Facial Expressiveness-
Facial expressions depend on the circumstances and relationships. For example, in America people smile to express pleasure. But it can also be taken as a different meaning if a woman is smiling at police man or a smile given to a toddler. Smile conveys different feelings from showing affection, kindness, or may hide actual feelings too. For instance, Russian culture does not approve of this behavior and find it inappropriate. Yet American culture consider smiling to strangers freely but not mostly in the big cities. (SporerSchwandt, 2007)In Southeast Asia people smile to hide embarrassment or sorrow. People of Vietnaam may share the sad stories of their leaving the country but in the end still smile. (SporerSchwandt, 2007)

The extent to which facial expressiveness differ depend on the individuals themselves and cultures. The extent to which facial expressiveness differ depend on the individuals themselves and cultures. It does not hold true that cultures that dont express as much emotions dont have emotions. It is their culture limitation that stops them to show non verbal messages. We can see this by Japanese people who dont exhibit their emotions openly as Americans. They prefer to keep it private. Because America has a vast diversity, it becomes difficult to understand different cultures non verbal messages. For example teachers in the US find it hard to understand whether their students from Japanese culture understand the lessons. Because Japanese do not show much facial expressiveness which teachers in the US look for while teaching. (American Psychological Association, 2006)It has been researched that Mediterranean i.e. Latino or Arab cultures show grief and pain as compared to Americans. Smiling too much is considered to be shallow. Moreover, study shows women smile more compared to men. (American Psychological Association, 2006)The key to understanding and interpreting non verbal messages is not to judge people with our cultures norms whose emotions differ than ours because misunderstandings may occur. (American Psychological Association, 2006)

Eye Contact-
Eye contact is also important in communication because too much or too less can create barriers. For relationships, eye contacts can be used as showing intimacy, attraction or influence. In US culture people consider it rude to stare. However other parts of US like in the south it is normal to stare at strangers. For example it is considered normal for two unknowns to walking by each other to say hello. This interaction does not mean a lot except a sense of showing presence to the other person. Generally Americans dont make much eye contact at bus stations rather more at university campus etc. (Hertenstein,Keltner, Bulleit, Jaskolka,2006)Eye contact takes different meanings in different cultures. Americans dont feel comfortable with stare than Arabs and Indians do. Americans take this gaze as too deep or intense. Yet little eye contact conveys lack of concern, negligence, or even suspicious. In American culture trustworthy is rated as to persons guts to look into the eyes to prove his honesty whereas in other cultures like Japan, Latin American or Africa do not make eye contact in respect. Asian cultures consider less eye contact as a sign of respect and admiration. Arab culture on the other hand is some what similar to American culture in this respect because they also view eye contact as proving truthfulness of a person. (Hertenstein,Keltner, Bulleit, Jaskolka,2006)

Conversation SpaceDistance-      We have not noticed but there is a level distance that we keep while interacting with other person. Such distance is named as either personal space or comfort zone over the past years. The distance between the two people builds an invisible wall that is the extent of comfort level they feel. (Arizmendi, 2008)        The amount of distance that we create depends on the relationship we have with the person. For example for us, we prefer to stand close to our friends and family than to complete strangers. When it comes to Japanese culture, in the workplace an employer keeps a larger distance while conversing with his employee. Arabs are more comfortable standing closer to the person while conversing. (Arizmendi, 2008)

We should not blame the culture namely that determines nonverbal communication. But it also includes ones personality and relationship that affects the meaning of the message. However, culture still plays a major part in interpretation of the nonverbal cues. The study shows that people feel comfortable with those having similar body language as theirs. A research of British and Arab students were conducted where students of British background acted as Arabs in nonverbal communication. They increased their eye contact, smiled and made direct contact with their other Arab peers. This showed that Arab students were comfortable with these British students behavior and found them trustworthy compared to other British students. (Arizmendi, 2008)Touch-     When this non verbal form of communication is studied, it has been concluded that in the US people shake hands even with strangers , hug, kiss with the opposite sex and cherish it. African Americans on the other hand dont like to be touched much except when greeting one another. They feel uncomfortable when being touched on the head. In Islamic and hindu culture people usually use their right hand for the touching. They consider left hand used for toiletry functions. Thus an insult if you use left hand for doing your tasks. For Indians, even breaking morning bread has to be done using their right hand only which is quite difficult for many. Islamic countries dont view as touching of the opposite gender to be appropriate even if its handshake. Jewish and Latinos accept touches frequently while Asians are restricted according to their culture. (Hertenstein, Holmes, McCullough, and Keltner, 2009)

Paralanguage-When we are communicating a message, the other vocal factors used such as chuckle, weep, moan or whine etc also send out varied messages across cultures. In Japan if you are giggling, it means embarrassment. Belching in India indicates satisfaction.Other characteristics that qualify a vocal message such as the volume, tone, pitch or rhythm also indicate different messages in cultures. For example loudness is preferred and liked by Arabs than low and soft voice as this is perceived as weakness. For Germans the volume of the voice shows confidence and a sense of power. In Thailand, loud voice is considered impolite. For Japanese it indicates loss of control. Generally it is their culture to be quiet and calm without yelling and shouting for any cause. Comparing on the basis of gender, women speak more softly then men.

Other vocal segregations include sounds such as oh, uh, uh-huh, hm etc. indicating custom or formality, approval, acquiesce and ambiguity. (Wiener,Devoe,Rubinow,Geller, n.d.)
                                                                 
ConclusionNonverbal communication is yet another way of expressing emotions, feelings and expressions. Yet we have to be careful when interpreting meaning of these messages. As they differ from culture to culture. All these forms of non verbal communication speak so much than the words can. Hence, it is a way one expresses his or her feeling to inform others of the emotions building up inside them that cannot be revealed by words. But judging correctly is the art of decoding these non verbal messages.

OPD and the Scholar-Practitioner Approach

The idea provided by the field of Organizational Psychology and Development (OPD) stems towards providing innovative and dynamic inputs to the organization. It surrounds the capacity of the individual to establish new methods that can enhance effectiveness and efficiency within the interplay of relations, values, and culture. Given the process surrounding OPD and the challenges of continuing change brought about by diversity and increasing interconnectedness, understanding the importance of behavioral outlook among employees remains crucial to establish cohesiveness towards learning, development and growth.

At the same time, the process of OPD also creates new opportunities for professionals and managers to devise important strategies that can generate motivation and drive among employees to meet the demands of the workplace. By encouraging continued education, training, and collaborative interaction among groups, this approach can help facilitate new perspectives to remain responsive and adaptive towards change (Stoltenberg et al., 2000).

Applying this with the scholar-practitioner model, such process lengthens the ability of OPD to become manifested within the organization. Here, continuous learning occurs among employees and the OPD professional as it derives inputs and solutions towards problems from research (Holloway, 1994). At the same time, it utilizes the realities happening within a particular work environment. It is through such capacity to apply these ideas together make the possibilities of enacting positive social change very significant (Stoltenberg et.al, 2000).

Lastly, the scholar-practitioner model can also serve as an important leverage in standardizing processes related to organizational growth. Fostering this approach gives better dynamics for managers and leaders to operate. Moreover, it induces appropriate frameworks that are rational and directly connected to the particular issue being tackled.

The OPD Professional and the Future
Analyzing on the important ideas learned throughout the course, it can be argued that I was not only able to synthesize important concepts and theories related to organizational psychology and development, it also became an instrument to view organizational dynamics in a different and wider perspective. The readings together with lecture introduced and honed my capacity to see new ideas as it corresponds to the role of leader in providing strategies to lead, motivate, and harness adaptability in the workplace.

Moreover, I also see this course to be significant in establishing competency to address the changing environment of businesses and organizations. This remains to be seen with the globalized environment. By immersing into these ideas accordingly, I was able to capitalize on infusing better skills in harnessing and understanding the significance of applying positive social change (Kourmanik, Lehner, and Winnick, 2009). Thus, this course provided the benchmark to harness my capacity to become a key player in my chosen organization.

Given these realizations, I do believe that the demand for OPD professionals will increase over time due to the current business trends. Nowadays, managers and organizations are looking for professionals who can facilitate adaptive strategies that can encourage innovation and inputs (Stoltenberg et.al, 2000). This means there is an increasing role among OPD professionals to utilize their skills and become vital contributors towards organizational change. Due to this, I deem that the future of OPD would be considered vital in many professions and a highly sought after position.

Applying this to my case, the perfect example of an OPD is my supervisor in the children welfare organization that I work for. Her knowledge, expertise, and experience provided the necessary capacity to handle and address key issues such as policies and information related to the group. At the same time, I had seen her work in managing and providing innovative strategies to address the needs of around 5,000 to 8,000 clients. This remains an important factor why I believe the career as an OPD will grow in the future as different organizations demand for competent employees who can handle the following trends accordingly.

Piaget, Vygotsky and Erickson Three Propagators of Human Development through Systematic Education

The current sate of human development could become possible only due to the relentless exploration on systematic education by some dedicated researchers who devoted their lives in underpinning the nuances that are associated with cognitive and social development, besides finding ways and means to systematically exploit them towards all-round human development. This study thus locates three articles on the educational implications of the findings of three such researchers, viz., Piaget, Vygostky and Erickson, who would be remembered as the prolific propagators of human development through systematic education.

The first article is taken from the website,  HYPERLINK httpwww.learningandteaching.info www.learningandteaching.info, where its writer Atherton (2009) deals mostly about post-16 learning and teaching, and considers Piagets ideas of assimilation and accommodation as the most interesting aspect of Piagets work. brief about Piaget from an unbiased angle, where it recognizes Piagets
The second article is a concerted effort by a host of researchers (Ageyev et al., 2003) who took a deep look to Vygotskys educational theory in cultural context, covering its concepts, paradigms, and development and learning, besides weighing the application of sociocultural theory in the classroom.
Kendra Cherry, who recognizes Eriksons Theory of Psychosocial Development as one of the best-known themes of personality and development, presents the third article.

Piagets Theory Highlighting the Significance of Accommodating Developmental Stages of Human Cognitive Abilities

Atherton (2009) divides his article into two main sections along with a brief introduction about Piaget (1896-1980), mentioning about Piagets shift from the research of mollusks to the study of the development of childrens understanding, and how he arrived at the conclusion that childrens thinking does not develop in an easygoing manner and instead it has several transitional phases that occur after intervals like 18 months, seven years, and 11-12 years. Such findings highlighted the fact that there is a need to add elements in school curriculum that would be helpful to enhance childrens understanding during those transitional phases. In the process Atherton presents Piagets Key ideas and stages of cognitive development in two clear sections to show how Piagets cognitive constructivism crystallized, where he tried to encompass humans cognitive developments from the first two years of birth to 11 years and up. However, Atherton also mentions about the latest developments in this field and provides a scope to view Howard Gardners re-evaluation of Piaget.

Vygotsky Scientific Approach to Convert Education a Potent Tool for All-round Human Development
A host of researchers contributed to 20 sections of the article named, Vygotskys educational theory in cultural context (Ageyev et al., 2003) tried to cover all possible dimensions of Vygotskys Sociocultural theory and education, where it explains the elements associated with Vygotskys theory, and underpins its salient features that have immense bearing on education as well as in classroom settings. The article is divided into three parts, where the first part covers concepts and paradigms, under which it deals with tools and mediated learning, the zones of proximal development according to Vygotsky, his doctrine of scientific concepts, etc., and in the part two, it deals with development and learning processes under the light of Vygotsky, before coming into part three that deals with the application of sociocultual theory in classroom setting.

Eriksons Theory Phases of Conflict could be the Key in Formulating Education Strategy
Kendra (2010) briefly described how Erikson underpinned how conflict act as turning point in each stage of human development and how such finding serves as a guiding light to find ways and means to exploit the impact of social experience towards building a balanced personality. Kendra touches down the central tenet of Eriksons psychosocial theory, i.e., ego identity, before moving on to describe the psychosocial stages, such as the stage of Trust vs. Mistrust or Autonomy vs. Shame and Doubt, Initiative vs. Guilt, Industry vs. Inferiority, Identity vs. Confusion, Intimacy vs. Isolation, Generativity vs. Stagnation and Integrity vs. Despair, where each stage holds several elements that are directly associated with educational processes, and between which the phase of formal education is totally covered, thereby showing the significance of Eriksons theory in sharpening the educational curriculum. The article is laced with several links that offer more detailed account of the possible implication of Eriksons theory in the field of education.

Conclusion
The above three articles provide important insight on how education could be systematized by covering three major dimensions of human development that are associated with cognition, identification of external situation and social awareness.

The Effects of Dispositional Optimism on Health Conditions of Hospital Patients

The patients state of mind has been the repeated subject of scrutiny for the purpose of finding alternative curative practices. That is to say, how the patient perceives and responds to his or her situation has been related to the probability of health improvement. State of mind may be affected either by the patients assessment of his or her situation or it may be affected by external factors which cause the patient to develop an affect response. Studies have revealed that whether a patient engenders a positive or negative state of mind has a corresponding effect on a patients health and medical condition (Baker, 2007).

In the present study, state of mind will focus on the patients assessment of his or her situation, particularly that of his or her medical condition. This is to be referred to as the patients disposition. In prior studies, patients diagnosed with particular medical conditions were monitored for improvement in their particular cases. However, few studies have studied the effect of a positive disposition on the general clinical health of an individual. The purpose of the present study is to examine the effect of a persons positive disposition on the number of times that he or she requires doctor consultation and the number of times that he or she gets sick. In the succeeding sections, prior research conducted in this area of study will be reviewed in order to fully understand the variables to be examined. The review of prior research will also develop a basis for the nature of the relationship of the variables allowing an educated hypothesis as to the results of the present study.

Literature Review
In order to better understand the goal of this research and the method through which such goal may be achieved, an assessment of prior research conducted in this field must be conducted. Prior research has classified disposition into optimism and pessimism. Optimism has been consistently found to be a predictor of treatment outcome and better physical recovery (Allison, Guichard,  Gilain, 2000). This shows that optimism is able to improve chances of healing when it is present in a specific medical situation. Individuals who are admitted as patients find that their chances of improvement and discharge improving when they retain a positive outlook regarding their medical condition.

There are however fewer instances wherein optimism has been related to a study of the general or overall health of an individual, particularly one who has not been admitted for a particular diagnosed disease. Some studies which have had this focus reported that individuals who were optimistic about their health also enjoyed healthier lifestyles and were sick less often than individuals who did not have an optimistic mind set about their health.

Optimism has been identified as a coping mechanism employed by individuals found to be in highly stressful situations (Baker, 2007 Fry, 1995). Because of the positive outlook engendered in the midst of trying situations, optimists have been found to engage in behaviors directed towards the improvement of the self. Therefore, optimists have been found to resort to exercise over drinking and smoking when faced with difficulties (Baker, 2007). Optimism has also been found to boost a healthy self-esteem thereby promoting a greater awareness of physical changes and symptoms (Fry, 1995). This allows optimists to prevent developing health threats rather than ignore them.

From the above it is shown that optimism promotes a health-conscious outlook for the average individual. This allows the individual to respond to the bodys needs thereby promoting greater health. In a sense, dispositional optimism regarding health is a self-fulfilling prophecy. Optimism therefore allows for greater possibility of recovery for patients diagnosed with particular diseases. Moreover, optimism encourages a healthy lifestyle for individuals who have not been diagnosed with illness. The subsequent portions will discuss how dispositional optimism and health may be measured given that the present study seeks to study the effect of optimism in promoting not just a healthy lifestyle but the active avoidance of illness.

Measuring Dispositional Optimism
Studies have viewed disposition as a construct with two poles (Scheier  Carver, 1985). One pole being the optimism end and the other pole the pessimism end. This meant that a decrease in one would lead to the increase in the other. Thus, optimism and pessimism were viewed as being affected by the same set of factors and the absence or presence of these factors determined to which pole an individual gravitated towards.

However, studies coming after Scheier and Carvers study viewed disposition as having two separate poles. Pessimism and optimism were observed to be affected by different factors (Baker, 2007). The optimism and pessimism categories were separated although they were admitted to be related. The emergence of this new categorization of disposition did not overthrow the prior perspective. Chang, DZurilla and Maydeu-Olivares (1994) came to the conclusion that the two-scale model of optimism and pessimism reflected that optimism was the more accurate predictor of health outcomes. This meant that in the previous studies where a one-scale model was used, it was mostly optimism that revealed a change in health. The pessimism construct was not found to be a good predictor.

In the study conducted by Fry (1995) wherein the construct of optimism was studied as a moderator of health outcome, the one-scale model of Scheier and Carver was still used. The studys goal was to assess the moderating effects of coping strategies used by females to handle stress in the work environment on their health. The results of the study supported the theory that the one-scale model of Scheier and Carver could accurately measure the degree of a persons optimism. The findings of the study supported the hypothesis that optimism helped working women to cope with their stress thereby providing moderating and maintaining health.

In Bakers study (2007), the Scheier and Carver model for measuring optimism was also used. The two-dimensional model was also used to ensure the reliability of the study results. The study revealed that the one- and two-dimensional models reflected similar effects between the relationship of optimism and health. Thus, either of the two models could have been used to reach the goals of the study. Bakers study (2007) attempted to find out the effect of dispositional optimism on the long-term health of individuals. Optimism was found to be related to health behavior. It was concluded that optimism has a direct effect on daily health experiences of individuals because of its capacity to decrease the stress experienced when handling day-to-day activities.

The above-mentioned studies show that the one-dimensional model of measuring optimism is still being used in current studies and that it is reliable. The study conducted by Mroczek, Spiro, Aldwin, Ozer and Bosse (1993) concluded that the essential factor in establishing the relationship between optimism or pessimism and health was the presence or absence of trait negative affectivity. They found that the absence of negative affect rendered irrelevant the patients degree of optimism or pessimism as regards the quality and improvement of his or her health.

These studies show that Scheier and Carvers model of measuring optimism is a reliable model to utilize in the current study. First, it has been shown to result in the same statistical findings as the two-dimensional model. Second, the measurement takes into consideration the presence of negative affect thereby ensuring the condition for the relationship between optimism and health. Finally, the nature of the studies wherein this measurement was used focused on general health questions, in contrast with the majority of studies which focus on specific medical conditions. Therefore, this measurement would be a good predictor of optimism and will be applied in the current study.

Measuring Health Outcomes
The second aspect of the present study focuses on the health outcomes which result because of the level of optimism espoused by the individual. Previous studies will reveal what particular predictors of health were measured by researchers in order to ascertain the improvement or degradation of health. Fry (1995) utilized a health self-report measure wherein participants were asked to indicate the variety of physical symptoms that they experienced. These symptoms were tied up with several physical illnesses.

Baker (2007) held a more general perspective in her assessment of health outcome. The number of hassles experienced by participants, their reported global health status index, their URI symptoms, and their probability of drinking, smoking, and exercising were all taken into consideration. Unlike Fry, Baker not only measured the symptoms of particular illnesses but she also measured the tendency of participants to engage in health-promoting and health-debilitating activities. Baker was thus concerned with the overall health of the individual and not simply their tendency to develop sicknesses and illnesses.

A study conducted by Allison, Guichard, and Gilain (2000) used dispositional optimism to predict the health-related quality of life of patients diagnosed with upper aerodigestive tract cancer. The one-dimensional model of the optimism measurement was employed in the study. The researchers used socio-demographic data and clinical data to assess the level of health-related quality of life of the patients. They concluded that higher levels of optimism improved the health-related quality of life of patients. Given the specificity of the health issues studied, it was appropriate for the researchers to use clinical records to ascertain the health quality of the participants.

The present study doesnt focus on any one illness but is concerned with the capacity of the patient to avoid disease and illness as a result of the levels of optimism experienced. The study will therefore access clinical records in a general way in that the number of visits participants made to hospitals or clinics will be tallied. The number of times that the participants have reported feeling ill will also be tallied. The frequency of engaging in health-promoting activities, such as exercise and the like, will also be tallied. These measurements will reflect how an optimistic disposition affects the clinical health of individuals.

Optimism has been shown to be a predictor of enhanced recovery for patients. It has also been shown to promote engaging in health-promoting activities. Given these findings, it is hypothesized that the present results will show that optimism not only promotes a healthier lifestyle but that it also results in a decreased frequency of illness. Therefore, it is hypothesized that high levels of optimism will result in fewer numbers of clinical records and hospital visits while resulting in greater frequency of exercise and other health-promoting activities.